Most men who have dated a number of women claim that it doesn’t work to be the nice guy. The guy with the little black book, who may or may not call, who acts as if life won’t really turn for the worse whether you accept or refuse a date with him, seems to be more attractive to the women.
Of course women want men to treat them like queens, but they too are seeking for a little challenge. It’s just that women are lured towards men with confidence. This type of man seems to defend his beliefs and values no matter how much other people may pressure him to give in. The nice guy may always concede to the caprice of a female, but the truth is, most women see this as a form of weakness under pressure. While women enjoy this as they continue to win on pretty much every item they fancy, they will think they have conquered a guy and lose a bit of respect for him.

So what should you do to get those women to go after you? Well, it doesn’t mean you have to be a fake. The first step is to find confidence in yourself. Be very nice to every woman you meet, show some reverence to someone you like, but don’t let her believe everything in your life will come to a halt simply because she’s around. As the relationship progresses and you slowly show that you need and want her, she will feel more important. Also be self-confident, even if you are tense. The most self-confident blokes I know also usually are wonderful in bed – and that’s no coincidence. My ex used instant performer to be sure he was in top shape, which he discovered about after studying a instant performer review in the press.

Don’t gratify a woman’s every whim. If you do, she’ll demand that from you every time and will soon take you for granted. Be ready to listen to her moan,groan and complain occasionally. It doesn’t also mean you have to be unreasonable and never ever give in. Definitely not! Give in when there’s reason to, but not at every pleading. This way when you give in, she will feel like you’ve done so because you really love her and want her to be happy. You should never give in just because it’s less troublesome than arguing. Compromise, on the other hand, is often the way to go.
Don’t ever doubt that a woman will think she doesn’t matter because you won’t give in. Not true, there are other ways to express your love. A good way to show a woman you love her is by doing things she doesn’t ask for. Surprise her with breakfast in bed or give her a compliment out of the blue instead of when she is hinting for one. By doing the unexpected, you have achieved being loving without being a lap dog. The good things in life come unplanned. You don’t necessarily have to be a rascal, just a confident nice guy who is true to himself.